twenty-five days into the year and i already find myself cutting my losses. this simply will not do.

in light of all the ugliness the beginning of 2010 has brought me, i’m making a belated new year’s resolution: the daily lovely. stay tuned.

dear jeremy,
i went to the movies, and while i was waiting for the show to start, i wandered through the arcade. i made up my mind, right then and there: i am coming to montreal soon, we are going to get mildly intoxicated, and i am going to join the revolution, once and for all.

my brother called me last night. he asked what was up, and i told him that i was going to take the semester off of school, for various reasons. his answer to this was, “again?”

ugh. over and over, the same thing. but here’s the thing: i am trying to avoid my usual patterns. more accurately, i guess, i am trying to circumvent them. i am trying to take a break and recover, so that i can start functioning from a position of strength, not the weakness to which i am so well accustomed.

the beginning of a new semester rolls around. i am inevitably exhausted from all the previous semesters; from all the days and weeks and months i spent playing catch up, and the time and energy invested in efforts that never ended up as accomplishments. i’ve tried, i’ve failed, i’ve dug myself in deeper.

but i am tearfully, fearfully optimistic: oh, that was so bad, so hard, it has to get better from here on in, right? i can do this if i try really, really hard; if i give it everything i’ve got left. can’t i?

well, i’m sad to say that the answer to that question has been no. the universe conspired, the stars aligned themselves, my courage and strength and kidneys gave out, and i was left holding the bag. and that was where i was headed, again. how many times can i try, almost make it, and then watch all my hard work bear out as nothing? i cried, i cried, i cried; but i let go.

at twenty five years old i feel ancient. i am behind, i’m running so late for life that by the time i join the party it’ll already be time to call it a night. i look around me at the freshmen on campus, the bright young faces and eager eyes, and i think how appropriate it is: freshmen. i look at the boys with broad shoulders, the girls with the deliberate gaits of those with a sense of accomplishment; the third and fourth years that are well on their way to their destinations of choice. i am neither, so i feel like i am nothing.

and so i am compelled by these feelings to push myself, to continue in the face of possible (well, lets face it, likely) failure in an attempt to silence the voices that nurture my insecurity, my feelings of worthlessness and stagnation and hopelessness. voices that are not only in my head, but all around me too (“again?”). but what good is that? have i really learned nothing from these excruciating past few years? wouldn’t that make them an actual waste of time, instead of a misrepresented collection of experiences whose purpose my (admittedly depressed, there were tests done and everything, but seriously, i’m working on it) mind can’t quite yet grasp?

it’s time for me to stop. it’s time for me to dig upwards, out of the hole, instead of downwards toward my annihilation. i don’t feel like i will ever amount to anything, and i don’t feel like i’ll ever be happy, safe or healthy again. but what i feel and what i think are two very different things. i think i can get better, and that if i do i can do good things. i just have to ignore myself, and give myself the chance.

something that i really, really want to do before i die: write to joey comeau, to express my most sincere admiration, and deepest thanks.

you guys are failing as seekers, i’m not hiding that hard. only the gimp has found me, and that’s just cause i’m a bit of a re.

i see a beautiful opportunity to more efficiently use my time in this, my wonderful new technological acquisition. this stats class is revue for me, so i can relax and feel optimistic about the future for a second. and now, thanks to my laptop (as yet unnamed) i can record my optimism, and show it to all of you. how lovely!

i really am happy right now. the cool morning air didn’t bother me, cause i was prepared enough to wear a sweater. the sun shone as i made my way to class on time. it seems like minutiae, like details not worth noticing, but i do notice them. and although, when enough of those little details represent unpleasant stimuli, i am somewhat easily exhausted or discouraged these days; i feel that when things are good, i am not one to take clean socks, good food or pretty red leaves on an autumn tree for granted.

i have been taking my pills. diligently. maybe they are working.

so i’ve started a game of hide and seek, and you’re it. if you find me, you win a prize! where ever you go, keep an eye out for sop, and her hide and seek experiment.

of all the people out there, i expect maule and jer to have the best chance at finding me; or maybe sam, because he’ll probably actively look. but then again, who knows who i’ll fish up from the depths?

if you find me, don’t tell anyone but me! no hints, and happy hunting!

today, my iphone was stolen. i sat on the floor, looking up at ian, and asked him if i was crazy. he said, “no, but i gotta be honest, tragedy seems to wrap itself around you like a warm blanket.”

i promised myself i wouldn’t use this blog as an outlet for the often overwhelming pressure and negativity i feel. but i am so tired. the sun is setting, and the glow is so pretty and orange, and it highlights my hair and throws my shadow on the wall. i am so tired, all i can do is cry, because as beautiful as it is, it doesn’t take away the pain in my jaw, or the early mornings ahead, or the hours of homework that are quickly accumulating, or the feeling in my gut that just won’t go away: that i am homeless, and will be for a long time. and it won’t give me back my phone, which was my way of dealing with my ADD, my everything when it came to making my life organized.

so i will sit, with the warmth of the sun on my face, and cry.